Caregiving and Connection
Becoming a caregiver for a loved one can be both rewarding and challenging. Learning to navigate this dynamic with patience and grace is essential.
By Arthur H. Weiss
Junior Grand Warden
A key element of any successful lodge is its culture, and in particular, the material aspect of its culture. Material culture deals with the physical space and structure of your lodge; the tangible objects that you use to symbolize, relate to, and understand our teachings; and, perhaps most importantly, the relationships your brethren develop and value as a result of working with these material objects.
What we feel when we enter a lodge room or social hall – the peace and harmony, security, trust, or special memories – reinforces the relationships we have fostered with our brethren over time, which in turn make up the core of our culture.
Table lodges and festive boards are one element of material culture that I particularly enjoy. Growing out of European lodge traditions, these lively events combine ritualistic elements with food and drink. Whether they are formal lodge rituals or more casual occasions, they are an opportunity for building relationships and lasting memories – a living vehicle for growing lodge culture.
To reinvigorate brethren’s relationships in my own lodge, a wise past master suggested an informal festive board that included spouses and friends, music and singing, and obligatory toasts. It has been such a success that our lodge will soon host its 22nd! Over the years, this event has been cemented into the culture of our lodge – and we wouldn’t be the same without it.
From those that have continued for decades to those hosted by our lodges under dispensation, I have yet to see a lodge that did not benefit from a festive board. The relationships they strengthen and the memories they build can make your lodge a fun and exciting place to be. Consider slamming a cannon or two – while adding a new bit of material culture to your lodge!
Arthur H. Weiss
Junior Grand Warden
Becoming a caregiver for a loved one can be both rewarding and challenging. Learning to navigate this dynamic with patience and grace is essential.
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