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California Freemason: As the director of special education and mental health services at Palisades Charter High School, what’s your work been like since the fires?

Ian Sayer: Before the wildfires, my focus was on working with students with autism and other behavioral needs. But now I’ve pivoted, and I’m working more closely with families and staff to be better equipped to help students. Our school has been having online instruction since January, and we’re all just trying to get back to a sense of normalcy. I’m also providing support for teachers and parents so they can better assist their kids. The real challenge is to cope and stay resilient in times of crisis.

CFM: What strategies have been effective in supporting students and staff through difficult times?

IS: You’ve got to come from a place of non-judgment. People going through rough times can’t just be told everything will get better—that’s not how it works. It’s about understanding what they’re going through and allowing them to drive the conversation. We are there to help them work through that trauma through discussion, through reflection, through re-engaging with other members of their community. We’re all in this boat together. We’re all on the level.

CFM: Are there any Masonic teachings that have shaped your work?

IS: Masonry has honed my skills on this so much. It’s all about relief, brotherly love, and truth. We learn to compromise and ensure we’re all working for the benefit of everyone. I do my best to stay on the level with parents about what I can and can’t do and what resources we can provide. I want to help and be as forthcoming as I can.

CFM: Were you able to make connections between your school and the local lodge?

IS: What’s interesting about Freemasonry is the connections you make and how willing Masons are to help. Santa Monica-Palisades № 307 reached out to my school to ask how they could assist. They offered their lodge to us for therapy spaces, and they’re planning on hosting our Public Education Night in May. I also recently attended a Hiram Award ceremony at the lodge. I spoke to one person there and mentioned my school was looking for a place to host AP tests. Luckily enough, she owns a hangar in Santa Monica and said she’d offer her space for free. Just by having conversations and being open with these like-minded people, you never know what might come out of it.

CFM: What advice would you give to people who want to get involved in mental health advocacy?

IS: As Mr. Rogers said, “Look for the helpers.” Be a helper. Be the relief someone needs. Ask yourself what you can do to help, not if you can help.